A friend of mine asked for tips. And while I know he doesn& #39;t need it, and I pray he has a wonderful relationship that will last forever, I& #39;ll share what I think are important things when in a relationship
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1) communication
I& #39;m a magician and I read minds as an act, but remember no one can read your mind. You NEED to communicate everything with your partner. Wants needs feelings and arguments. If they don& #39;t know they can& #39;t act upon it. No, hints don& #39;t work. Be direct but loving
I& #39;m a magician and I read minds as an act, but remember no one can read your mind. You NEED to communicate everything with your partner. Wants needs feelings and arguments. If they don& #39;t know they can& #39;t act upon it. No, hints don& #39;t work. Be direct but loving
2) trust and honesty
While you& #39;re communicating, remember to communicate everything. Don& #39;t leave anything out and NEVER EVER LIE. Even if you think it& #39;ll make them angry or sad, if they love you, they& #39;ll do their best to understand and act upon it
While you& #39;re communicating, remember to communicate everything. Don& #39;t leave anything out and NEVER EVER LIE. Even if you think it& #39;ll make them angry or sad, if they love you, they& #39;ll do their best to understand and act upon it
3) you are a team
Its you against everything else. Even when you& #39;re arguing with your partner, it& #39;s both of you vs the problem. You are looking for a solution, and never looking to fight or hurt the other person
Its you against everything else. Even when you& #39;re arguing with your partner, it& #39;s both of you vs the problem. You are looking for a solution, and never looking to fight or hurt the other person
4) give them space
Its OK to like different things, and it& #39;s OK to spend time away from each other. Go and do your hobbies, out with your friends etc. Your partner doesn& #39;t always have to be there next to you
Its OK to like different things, and it& #39;s OK to spend time away from each other. Go and do your hobbies, out with your friends etc. Your partner doesn& #39;t always have to be there next to you
4 Cont) but remember to spend time with them and try to involve your partner in your activities. Make your partner your friend& #39;s friend. If it doesn& #39;t work or they don& #39;t enjoy your hobby, it& #39;s OK. Find something else to do with them
5) be considerate and focus on your responsibilities
Forgret your rights for a second. Make sure you are doing the best and what& #39;s right for your partner, especially if you& #39;re married. Be considerate of their feelings. Only then see if you have any rights not taken care of
Forgret your rights for a second. Make sure you are doing the best and what& #39;s right for your partner, especially if you& #39;re married. Be considerate of their feelings. Only then see if you have any rights not taken care of