To anyone not understanding rioting, a thread:

I do a lot of work in behavior support in the field of developmental disabilities.

Please note, there is very little difference in behavioral principles between this or other populations.

People are people

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One of the unfortunate things in our field is that we have to teach employees to handle a potentially aggressive situation to keep everyone as safe as possible.

Do you wanna know why that& #39;s a sad reality in our field?

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It& #39;s not because the person wants to hurt you.

The person doesn& #39;t want you gone.

There& #39;s no pleasure in the fight.

It& #39;s not random either. The phrase "It came out of nowhere" is a myth.

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It& #39;d be so much easier to deal with it if any of that were the case. All you& #39;d have to do is just...fight back.

But no. The reality is that the person needs something. Maybe they need to not be in pain. Maybe they need affection.

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Maybe it& #39;s any of a million needs. And they& #39;ve tried to tell you. And they really, really would rather you just knew and could help.

But you don& #39;t know what they need.

And sometimes it& #39;s because they don& #39;t know a good way to tell you.

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So many times though it& #39;s because we or someone before us forgot to or refused to listen.

Not listening didn& #39;t make the need go away though

So sometimes the way we get told is a little rough. And it sucks. And it& #39;s OK to feel bad for who received the violent communication

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But don& #39;t forget that the need is still there. Just because you took a punch doesn& #39;t mean that person is all better now

That punch was just the message. And now you have a choice

Focus on the punch and it& #39;ll happen again

Focus on the need though...

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