I& #39;m scared and I need advice.

Kissmate still hasn& #39;t moved his bowels since the surgery, and Sunday was supposed to be the day by which that needed to happen. We& #39;ve been using stool softener every night, and Miralax yesterday.

No movement, and I can feel hard blockage in there.

I& #39;m going to call the surgeon in the morning, but I& #39;m worried about the usual fatphobic assumptions--like he& #39;s just too lazy to push. And seeking an urgent care clinic feels terrifying right now with covid going on; I don& #39;t want him exposed to germs.