if you still expect all nonbinary people to work towards some ideal of androgyny, sorry to say but you don’t even remotely understand what being nonbinary means. nonbinary people don’t have to be androgynous & many of us don’t even want to be. nonbinary =/= androgyny

nonbinary people can be feminine or masculine https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="👏" title="Clapping hands sign" aria-label="Emoji: Clapping hands sign"> nonbinary people can have beards https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="👏" title="Clapping hands sign" aria-label="Emoji: Clapping hands sign"> nonbinary people don’t need to bind https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="👏" title="Clapping hands sign" aria-label="Emoji: Clapping hands sign"> nonbinary people can wear makeup https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="👏" title="Clapping hands sign" aria-label="Emoji: Clapping hands sign"> nonbinary people can do whatever the heck they want because being nonbinary isn’t an aesthetic https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="👏" title="Clapping hands sign" aria-label="Emoji: Clapping hands sign">

you don’t want to let nonbinary people be themselves, you‘re just okay with the gender binary becoming trinary. that’s a YOU problem, nonbinary people have nothing to do with it.